GOALS The Power Line to Success
and Achievement
A Hands-On Goal Setting Workshop
By Glen Hopkins
WHY DO WE NEED GOALS?
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Goals give you direction in all areas
of your life – Personal, Career, Spiritual, Material, and Contribution
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Goals give you a purpose in life.
A reason to get up early in the morning and go to bed late at night
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Goals will put drive and passion into
your life
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Not having goals is similar to sailing
a ship across the Atlantic without a map. Goals, like maps, help
you get to your destination much faster than sailing though life aimlessly
HOW DO I SET GOALS?
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First you must dream! Dream of everything
you want, and have always wanted in every facet of your life.
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There are no limits. Ask yourself, “What
would I attempt to do, if I knew I could not fail?” “What would I
want for my life if I knew I could have it?”
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Allow yourself to dream like you did
as a child. Let your imagination run wild!
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Brainstorm
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Write your ideas down on paper and decide
which ones are the most important to you.
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Review what you have written down on
paper.
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Now its is time to define your dream
precisely. Which of these goals are most important to you, and why?
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On a fresh piece of paper, write down
one goal at a time. Beside the heading, write down a deadline for achieving
that goal. Be sure that the deadline is realistic.
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To help achieve the long term goal,
set a timeline using short term goals. For example, if your long term personal
goal is to loose 60 lbs. in one year, set short term goals leading up to
the long term goal. In this example you might set short term goal
to loose 5 lbs. per month. This is an effective way to evaluating
your progress helping you to determine if you have to make changes to your
action plan.
THE SECRETS OF ACHIEVING YOUR GOALS
1. Make your goals Inspirational
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You need to set goals grand enough to
challenge yourself. Remember that if you don’t have to push yourself
beyond your current limits to reach your goals, you’re not really achieving
anything. To truly be successful, and reach your true potential,
you must constantly push yourself to move outside of your “comfort zone”.
2. Define your goals with Clarity
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Be precise in what you want. The
more clearly defined your goal is, the easier it will be to attain.
For example, let’s say you want to buy a house. To say you want to buy
a house is not enough. To find a house you’ll really be happy with,
you have to specify exactly what you want. Do you want to live in
the country or the city? Do you want a two storey or a bungalow?
Do you want a brick house or a wood house? How many square feet do
you want? Do you want a pool? How much can you afford?
As you can see there are many questions to ask.
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The more questions you ask yourself,
and are able to answer, the clearer your goal will be.
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Once you know the exact outcome you
want, you will be able to create an action plan that will ensure your success.
3. Write a Paragraph
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Write a paragraph or two describing
exactly why you absolutely must attain your goal. Write down all
the reasons why you are committed to attain your goal. Feel the emotion
stir up inside of you. Feel the passion and drive. This will
bring the goal to life!
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How would you feel one year from now
if you were to attain all your goals? How would that make you feel
about yourself? Would your feel proud? Would your self-esteem
be increased? Would you feel unstoppable? Would you feel more
confident in your ability? What results would you get from reaching
your goals? Would you have greater job security? Would you
be up for a promotion? Would you be earning more money? Would
your family and friends be proud of you? How would that make
you feel?
4. Write Another Paragraph!
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This paragraph or two should explain
what will happen if you don’t attain your goal. How will you feel?
What will happen to your lifestyle? Will you be embarrassed?
Will you loose self-esteem? Will you loose your job? The more
emotion you can put behind the reasons why you must succeed and why you
must not fail, the more committed to attaining your goals you will become.
5. Constantly Evaluate Your Progress
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Having an action plan is not enough.
The captain in the previous example will have to constantly evaluate his
progress in order to be sure he is on target. Unforeseen obstacles
are sure to arise, such as a hailstorm, or increased southerly winds.
As a result, he may have to increase his speed or guide the boat in a more
westerly direction. In other words, notice what is working and what
is not. If an approach is not working, don’t waste your time with
it. Change your approach.
6. Never Lose Sight of Your Goal
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Take the time to review your goals every
morning when you get up and every night before you go to bed. This
will keep them fresh in your mind. If you think reviewing your goals
twice a day is too much to ask, maybe you should reevaluate what it is
you want. Ask yourself, “How important is it to me that I attain
my goals?”
7. Don’t Procrastinate
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Procrastination is a “silent killer”.
Understand that the only way to achieve your goals is to take action!
Knowledge means nothing if you don’t apply it. How many people have
you come across with an unbelievable amount of education working a mediocre
job? The world is full of people who don’t apply their knowledge.
On the other hand, chances are you know of people with less educational
background who apply everything they learn. These people are usually
the ones who are most successful in all areas of their lives.
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Do something right now that will help
you to achieve your goals. There is no time like the present!
Get the ball rolling. Each step you take brings you one step closer
to the life you want.
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Remember the motto, “The road to Someday,
leads to the town of Nowhere”. Someday is today!
THE BENEFITS OF GOAL SETTING
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You will notice an increase in your
energy level as you begin to live your life with passion – the passion
that having a meaningful goal will give you.
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You will be in control of your life
and the direction you are heading. Your life does not have to be
determined by fate alone. With goals, you create your destiny.
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Goals give you a purpose in life.
A reason to get up early and go to bed late.
EVIDENCE
The following are examples of individuals
who have achieved their goals. How has it changed their lives and
possibly the lives of others?
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Mother Teresa
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Nelson Mandella
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Michael Jordan
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Mark McGwire
What goals have you achieved that have
changed your life, and possibly the lives of others? Maybe it was,
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Education
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Relationship
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New car
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Job interview
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Weight loss
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Exercise program
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Everything you do is a cause set in
motion. No matter how small the act may seem, it will ultimately
have an effect on your life
OBSERVATIONS
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You will soon notice your mind will
become a magnet for attracting any information or opportunity that can
help you achieve your goals more rapidly.
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For example, have you ever played the
game, “Punch Buggy?” If not, if goes something like this. When
driving in a car with a friend, the first person to see a Volkswagen “Bug”
gets to punch the other person in the shoulder while exclaiming the color
of the car “Punch Buggy Red”!
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Once you begin playing this game, you
will be surprised to find how quickly your arm becomes sore! That’s
right, all of a sudden you will become a magnet for Volkswagen “Bugs”!
Everywhere you look, you will see one. The same thing is true of
your goals. When you know exactly what you are looking for, it will
mysteriously present itself.
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This is based on the phenomenon that
You Get What You Focus On.
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Remember to “enjoy the ride’.
This is the key to a successful life. There is little point in only
allowing yourself to enjoy life at the point of achieving a goal.
If that were the case, think of all the time that would be spent not fully
enjoying your life. Learn to happily achieve rather than achieving
to be happy. After all, whether you are conscious of it or not, the
majority of your time is spent striving to achieve goals. Such as,
getting up in the morning, getting to work on time, making time to see
a friend of loved one, and so on.
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Although these “goals” are pretty exciting,
let’s not forget the big ones. The ones we create with passion and
drive. The goals that can truly change our lives if we commit to
pursuing them.
SUMMARY
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If you are dissatisfied with some aspect
of your life, get excited. All it means is you now what you don’t
want. Now its is time to determine exactly what you do want.
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Clarify exactly what it is you want
and create a time frame for getting it.
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Write one or two paragraphs why you
must attain your goals and one or two paragraphs why you must not fail
to attain your goals.
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Keep a close eye on your progress.
If what you are doing is not working, change your approach.
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Review your goals twice daily.
This will keep you focused.
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The time to change your life is now.
Not tomorrow, not the next day.
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Take time to invest in the future you
want. You have the power to create your own destiny!
- Glen Hopkins
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Copyright (c) 1999 Glen Hopkins
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GOALS WILL HELP YOU REACH SUCCESS
Your present circumstances don't
determine where you can go,
they merely determine your starting
place.
The purpose of goals is to focus
your attention on your future.
Magical things will begin when you
set them.
Your power to accomplish becomes
a reality when you have a goal.
Your mind reaches toward achievement
when it has clear objectives.
Goals give you a starting place
and a destination.
Just focus the full power of all
you are
on what you have a burning desire
to attain,
and you will achieve success.
Act on your dreams and they are
yours.
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SUCCESSFUL
PEOPLE KNOW WHAT THEY WANT
In whatever
position you find yourself determine your objective first.
Until your
thoughts are linked to a purpose there can be no accomplishment.
There is no
achievement without goals.
If you don't
know where you are going,
how can you
expect to get there.
The world
has the habit of making room for the person
whose words
and actions show that they know where they are going.
Goals give
you a starting place and a destination.
With them,
you will be able to determine what it will cost you to get there.
In your pursuit
of them, you will be going someplace.
Only you can
determine what you want.
You can decide
on your major objectives, targets, and aims.
Knowing where
you are going is all you need to get there.
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